There are many mistakes that you could make when you are in a relationship. Most of the time they have unpleasant consequences and sometimes they could lead to a break up. Here's a list with one of the most frequent and dangerous errors.
You can find out how to avoid them! Infidelity Is one of the biggest mistakes and the surest way to breaking up. It's true, it's depending on the tolerance level, but generally it's unforgivable. If you or your partner wants to be with someone else the simplest way is to break up.
This is one of the most undesirable feelings, isn't it?
The bad part is that because of it ugly things can happen. The ones with a dominant character become manipulative because of the jealousy, while weak ones, without self-confidence, feel insecure. Therefore they have the impression that they aren't good enough for their partner.
Certainly, jealousy is one of the surest ways to destroy a relationship.
The best method to get rid of it is honesty: talk openly with your partner about the things that bothers you.
Saying "I love you" too quick
You've just met a great guy and you feel butterflies in your stomach when he's around you.
You know that it is too early, but still you decide to tell him directly what are your feelings are. After the forth date you kiss him good night and tell him "I love you!
You are everything
I've ever wanted...".
Well, this is the best method of freaking him out. Love means long term relationship, which means commitment. It's in everybody's interest to know each other very well before making a step so big.
Wait a bit more!
If you are still together, if you feel so attracted one to another so much and if there's "chemistry", feel free to express your feelings.
You still didn’t get over your ex You shouldn’t involve in a new relationship if you haven’t forgotten completely about your ex. Many girls are tempted to demonstrate to their ex that he is not irreplaceable. Because of this they adventure their selves into relationships with someone without having feelings for them. Well, in this case, you won’t feel very good after.
Moreover, just because you have another boyfriend doesn’t automatically means that you forgot your ex. Involuntary, you will make comparisons between them and this is not healthy for your new relationship.
You forget to live in the present
If you are always focusing on the things that happened or if you believe that some things will happen, your life will enter pilot mode.
Inclusively in your personal life!
And this is how the famous routine comes into your life and destroys your relationship. Avoid this by every means. Enjoy every moment of your life and try always new and funny things. A little adventure will spice things up in your relationship.
You criticize his friends
Maybe his friends aren’t your favorites.
Still, there is no good in gossiping about them and accentuate only their flaws. They existed before you in his life and it’s not a very clever idea putting him to choose between you and them. Love is important, but so are friends.
You try hard to change him
To be accepted as we are by our partner is one of the most pleasant aspects of a relationship.
Trying to change him is annoying and it will hurt both of you. Your boyfriend can become more restrained when it comes to you. Of course, this list isn’t complete.
There are many other mistakes that could lead to a break up. Though, these are some of the most frequent and it’s not bad at all trying to avoid them.
- UNTIL FIGHTING WILL TEAR US APART
- THE WAY YOU MAKE ME FEEL: WHAT DO YOU LOVE YOUR LOVER FOR?
- SPENDING ROMANTIC NIGHTS: WAYS TO BRING THE SPARK BACK INTO YOUR LOVE LIFE
- SIGNS HE’S NOT MUCH IN TO YOU