We all know the real definition of blind dates and if we didn’t have one, we surely have a friend that did and have been suggested to also go for one.
But I think that we can also name them as some tricks to fool our “fate” of being single and never seem to meet someone to please us.
This whole concept was born from the marriage of Despair and Boredom:
the most probable is that you were desperate when making the decision to go for one and that you got bored as you were having it.
And, anyway, how could be a child born from Despair and Boredom, if not deceiving?
Still, most of us try it basing of the fact that at least you took a shot!
But the real thing is that your hope barometer will eventually go down with every failed date!
Now, honestly speaking, what are the chances of being into someone if you didn’t even see him?
We all know how small are the chances of building a strong relationship by starting it by social networking, where we can still see a little bit of that’s person looks, manners, hobbies and reactions, even if we can’t really rely on them.
Therefore, is building a strong relationship on someone’s opinion or gossiping about a guy seems to you more legit?
On the other hand, let’s not be too pessimistic.
There may be some happy or at least not disastrous stories that started with a blind date, but I have to admit: I haven’t heard of any.
Still, it depends on who suggests you the supposed date.
If it is a very close friend of you whom you know for long time, it may worth the shot.
At least, you are pretty sure that you will have fun if you won’t feel any chemistry.
In the end, there is nothing bad in accepting to go on blind date as long as you don’t rely on meeting The One or as long as you aren’t emotionally vulnerable towards this issue.
Because, even if you do see someone in real life and go on a few dates, you can never claim that you know him and base on other fact besides there is chemistry and it makes you laugh.
The real thing is that nothing truly guarantees anything.
Therefore, we must not picture a whole love life inspired from the fairy tales, but take the things as they come, not despair and making the best of it.
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